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How to Make a Life

A Tibetan Refugee Family and the Midwestern Woman They Adopted

Madeline Uraneck

 

An immigration story of crossing cultural bridges and finding family.

 

256 pages, 5.5 x 8.5, 30 b&w photos
Paperback: $22.95 | ISBN: 978-0-87020-855-3
Ebook: $15.99 | ISBN: 978-0-87020-856-0
Publication Date: 4/25/2018

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Description

When as a young man Migmar first fled across the Himalayas toward an uncertain future, he wondered how he would start a new life somewhere else—without a country, citizenship, education, or job. Years later, raising a family in a refugee camp in India, he and his wife, Tenzin, asked themselves the same question as they considered entering a US immigration lottery. “Let’s try,” Tenzin said, setting the family on a difficult and rewarding path, both remarkable and familiar to the many immigrant families who have taken it. When they finally made it to the United States, Madeline Uraneck, a single woman and self-confessed meddler, thought she would help the newcomers navigate American life—involving herself for a few years at most—but Migmar and Tenzin had other ideas. They welcomed her into their home and their daily lives. An evocative blend of immersion journalism and memoir, How to Make a Life shares the immigration story of a Tibetan refugee family who crossed real and cultural bridges to make a life in Madison, Wisconsin, with the assistance of the Midwestern woman they befriended.

From tales of escaping Tibet over the Himalayas, to striking a balance between old traditions with new, to bridging divides one friendly gesture at a time, How to Make a Life will allow readers to expand their understanding of family, culture, and belonging.

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Author Bio

Madeline Uraneck is an educator and writer who has visited sixty-four countries through her role as International Education Consultant for the Wisconsin Department of Public Instruction, several Peace Corps assignments, and her passion for world travel. Her writing has appeared in K–12 curriculum materials, educational handbooks on culture and policy, and publications including WorldView Magazine, Hotline, Global Education, WorldWise Schools, and Isthmus, for which she received a Milwaukee Press Club award. She lives in Madison, Wisconsin.

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How to Make a Life

Whether you’re enjoying Madeline Uraneck’s How to Make a Life on your own, for a class, or as part of a book club or discussion group, this companion guide will enhance your reading experience and encourage you to dive deeper into understanding the immigrant experience and what it means to build community across cultures.

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How to Make a Life

A Tibetan Refugee Family and the Midwestern Woman They Adopted

Madeline Uraneck

256 pages, 5.5 x 8.5, 30 b&w photos

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